Becoming A Mother For The Second Time

If you are a first time mom, you might think that mom for the second time will not be as exciting as the first time.  You might think that nothing will live up to the experience of having your firstborn in your arms for the first time.

But today we will talk about the great gift of becoming a mother for the second time.

Emotions of a first time mother

As you enjoy your first child and you feel their little heart beating close to yours, you may feel that it is impossible to feel such happiness again.

Pregnancy, childbirth and meeting your first child are some of the most important moments in any mother’s life. From the very perception begins a platonic love story that will last for the rest of life.

A mother knows how to give of herself, dedicates herself and becomes completely overwhelmed by love from the very first moment. She breastfeeds, listens, cleans and hugs her baby. She puts her children to bed and holds their arms.

All this and more, is without asking for anything again. But the surprising and magical thing is to see how life rewards parents with the birth of the first child and the moments that follow.

Mothers of two have more love

It is true that mothers of two young children often feel exhausted, or even on some of the worst days depressed.

But all mothers of two  know she is a lucky woman. She can enjoy two smiles, two voices, two ways to play and live. Two different people see her as the best mother in the world.

Being a mother of two may seem impossible. Take care of the children and themselves, the home, the work and all other responsibilities on top of that.

Only someone who has experienced what it is like to raise two young children knows how necessary it is with a lot of juggling and invention, to get through the many tasks that life gives us daily.

Without a doubt, mothers who have a second child learn to do magic:

• The food is always ready on time, even if it only took a few minutes to cook.
• It does not matter that mother has to spend all day with her little one in her arms. She, alone, is able to get everything in order. So everyone has clean clothes, a packed lunch and their beds are made.
• She may appear to have more than 24 hours of the day. In a single day, a mother of two can work as hard as anyone else. But she can also find time to wipe away tears, cuddle, play and get down on the floor to comfort her firstborn, who is jealous of their little brother or sister.

Becoming a mother for the second time provides yet another reason to live

When nature gives a woman a gift that is to become a mother for the second time, it gives her the chance to relive all the good parts of her first pregnancy and birth.

She feels a tremendous sense of affirmation from the memories that come to her. She knows that what she is about to experience is the greatest happiness of them all.

If you with your first child discovered a reason to live, be happy, grow as a person and fight for your dreams and your children; then you will have twice as much of this with two children.

If nature gives you the chance to have another child, be happy and take the opportunity to grow as a person.